Getting the Mrs onside
Thursday, May 22nd, 2008Anyone who plays alot of poker, will probably know what it is like to get it in the ear from the Mrs/Girlfriend. Poker can be very time consuming, particularly tournament play. And the worst thing about tournaments is that if the Mrs wants to make plans, it is tough to say when exactly you will be free, because you could bust out in 10 mins time, or be playing for another 6 hours and win the damn thing (you lucksack!)
This, combined with things like foul moods following a particular bad beat ridden evening, makes it potentially far from harmonious on the homelife to be a poker junkie.
I think probably the best method to deal with it is to get them involved, in terms of playing a little. You’ll often find that they find it quite enjoyable to play the occassional tournament. Ask for them to take over (a cheaper buy-in!) once, and sit back and watch them get hooked ;) Well, maybe it wont work every time, but you get the drift.
The only other advice I can give is to try play poker in a seperate room if possible (eg an office), and try to keep it seperate from the home life. At least then the swearing doesnt interfere with their favorite TV program!
Good Luck, and hopefully you wont have to compromise on your playing time that much. If you do, then only one phrase remains….under the thumb or what! ![]()
